Why do men today look so gay?

Its sad men today of all races are wearing skinny jeans they look worse on black males and those orange and purple ones.Pink and earrings were bad enough but it seems men have abandoned masculinity and you may even have boys thinking about other boys.What ever happened to the days when boys wanted girlfriends and would never experiment with another boy and wanted to so those things with females I mean seriously.Skinny jeans are not attractive on males I prefer loose pants and shirts not soo loose and not so tight.likein the 1940's when men were masculine sometimes a hard life makes you mature.