How do you decide enough is enough in your relationship?

Honestly, I think that in this case, enough is enough. I think you and your son are MUCH better off alone than being with some guy who doesn't realize the true treasures he has in life. It seems as if he is rather careless...like he doesn't know exactly what he wants. Something just doesn't seem right about him in my opinion. I think you and your son are BOTH much better off. You deserve a man who is going to be there for you and your son-rather than acting like a complete stranger to both. Think about it- do you really want your son to just be "acquaintances" with his own father? It doesn't seem right to me. Find a man that will treat both you and your son right. I think it's time to take out the trash.