Abortion is the greatest act of selfishness a person can ever do.?

With the exception of documented rape and incest (exception that is commonly argued as a rule.) Abortion is just plain morally bankrupt. Think of all the families out there that have to wait years for a baby of there own to adopt because they cant have children. So a lady who decided with her full consent to have sex becomes pregnant but because they don't want to sacrifice 9 months for a child they made as a result of there willful carnal desires, they deprive that child of 80-90 years of life. How self-centered and morally bankrupt can they be? Whats worse we tolerate such actions in our society. This doesn't say much about our society as a whole.